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Post by Darkwing on 2011-08-18, 00:27

Ok, here's a potentially fun one for you. Say you're at the end of your relationship and you pretty much know it too. All you do is fight with your partner and your partner doesn't see you for who you are and all that. So you meet someone else (intentionally or accidentally, is kinda irrelevant) and then you two start going out, having sex whatever behind your current partners back. Is this acceptable do you think? You are gonna break it off with your current partner soon anyways.

I personally would say break it off before seeing someone new, but I've an old fashioned sense of morals that perhaps aren't "applicable" these days.

Thoughts?

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Re: Cheating

Post by Destral on 2011-08-18, 01:09

Id break it off before seeing someone else and even then Id hold off on asking the other out for a day or two.

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Re: Cheating

Post by Leach54 on 2011-08-18, 01:26

I think i would break it off with my current partner first.

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Re: Cheating

Post by Darkwing on 2011-08-18, 01:30

So why do you think people don't? Uncertainty of how to directly break something off, so they indirectly break it off by seeing someone else and then one the other finds out, they break it off?

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Re: Cheating

Post by Leach54 on 2011-08-18, 01:35

Its tough to dump someone, especially if at one time you had real feelings for them.

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Re: Cheating

Post by Destral on 2011-08-18, 01:40

My guess is one of two things:

1. Fear of hurting the current partner (pretty much Leach's point).

OR

2. Desire to hurt the current partner.

And in many cases that Ive seen, its usually the latter.

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Post by A-BIack_Man on 2011-08-18, 02:43

Well in that case, I'd break it off first, but not out of respect to the old girl. Since you are most definately going to break it off and it seems like you resent eachother, I'd break it off because I wouldn't wanna let the new girl know I already have a girlfriend and look bad to her.

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Re: Cheating

Post by Shemuel on 2011-08-18, 06:07

I've always had gaps between relationships, but I don't think I would do such a thing. Plus, the truth would surely out eventually.

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Post by Gamerang on 2011-08-18, 07:51

Break it off first. If it is originally your partner who is the reason that your not getting along it gives them a defense and even if it's you it would be helping there cause. Yeah break it off.
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Re: Cheating

Post by Shemuel on 2011-08-18, 08:19

OK, to be devil's advocate:

No, because for a while I could have twice the fun!

The strain of maintaining such a stance gratifies my adrenalin junkie lifestyle.

I am a diagnosed nymphomaniac. Please help me!

I believe in polygamy. If one of my loves doesn't believe in such a setup then she doesn't have to know about it.

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Re: Cheating

Post by JPB18 on 2011-08-18, 10:48

I don't believe in Polygamy, so I wouldn't do that... Besides it is a matter of respect...

And also any relationship has hardships... They just test how strong is the relation... If I began something with someone, there should be a reason...

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Re: Cheating

Post by Leach54 on 2016-07-25, 02:47

Leach54 wrote:Its tough to dump someone, especially if at one time you had real feelings for them.

Too real, younger me.

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